Navigating the Shadows of Success

Did you know that only 8% of people actually achieve the goals they set for themselves?
That leaves a staggering 92% of the population who start working towards dreams and aspirations, but ultimately end up throwing in the towel.
And you know what? I get it!

The journey to success isn't always sunshine and rainbows; sometimes, it's a messy, uphill battle filled with doubts, fears, and many tears.

Believe me, I've been there. I AM there!

I set out on a mission to leave my job and pursue my dreams full-time over 3 years ago and have been working towards it daily ever since.
Little did I know the whirlwind of challenges that awaited me when I finally achieved the dream. 

Three years ago, I envisioned a life of freedom and fulfillment, where I could finally call the shots and live on my terms.

But when I finally took the leap, reality hit me like a ton of bricks.
The road to success was, and is paved with far more obstacles than I had anticipated.

Leaving my job was just the beginning; what has followed is a journey of self-discovery and growth unlike anything I had experienced before.

I've found myself confronting deep-seated fears and insecurities that I had long ignored.
The shadows of my past trauma, threatening to derail my progress at every turn.

But amidst the chaos and uncertainty, I discovered something profound: true success isn't just about external achievements; it's about inner peace and fulfillment. It's about confronting the darkest corners of your soul and emerging stronger on the other side.

Over the past three months, I've faced parts of myself I never knew existed.

I've grappled with feelings of worthlessness and self-doubt, wrestled with the fear of failure, and navigated the unfamiliar territory of freedom and vulnerability.
It hasn't been easy, but it's been worth it.

Success isn't a destination; it's a journey of self-discovery and growth.
It's about embracing the shadows as much as the light and finding peace within yourself, regardless of external circumstances.

The road is long and arduous, but it's also profoundly rewarding.
Embracing the challenges, confront your fears, and trusting in the power of your spirit to guide you.

Success isn't just about what you achieve; it's about who you become in the process.

Facing my inner demons hasn't been easy, but the growth and progress that has emerged from the struggle have been nothing short of transformative.

I won't sugarcoat it; there have been countless moments, and I suspect there will be many more, where the temptation to throw in the towel and give up has come to mind.
To find myself among the 92%, relinquishing the dream and the hope that perhaps I could be one of the fortunate 8% who reach the pinnacle of success.

Like the times I've found myself alone in a room after preparing for days to teach a class, eagerly awaiting clients who never showed up.
Or the moments I put myself out there on social media, only to be met with deafening silence.
And then there are the mornings when I muster the strength to get dressed and prepare for the day, only to spend hours in front of a computer, craving even the slightest hint of engagement.

Navigating this journey as my own co-worker and sole source of support has been incredibly isolating.

It's a constant battle to show up for myself with the same dedication and commitment that I would offer to anyone else.
But through it all, I've learned the importance of resilience and self-reliance, even in the face of adversity.

If you're eager to take a big leap in life, enticed by the promise of greener pastures, know that it's indeed possible. But what is ahead of you, isn't necessarily easy. 

The path to that destination requires taking a honest look at yourself and the image you project onto the world.
It demands wholeheartedly embracing the reality that certain aspects of yourself demand transformation. Allowing yourself to confront the truth about your self-perception and a deep look into the reasons behind those feelings is crucial.

Reach out for support when you need it, surround yourself with people who uplift and inspire you, and above all, believe in yourself and your ability to overcome any obstacle.

The path to success may be tough, but it's also incredibly beautiful. So keep pushing forward, keep growing, and above all, keep believing in yourself. You've got this.

Angie
Soul Alignment Mentor